Can I Rant? [part 2]

August 15, 2009 at 1:19 am (Work)

secondly, before i say the rest. i going to have some indications for my group members. ok. one is “leader” (cause she is the leader) and another “shadow”.

let’s start off. like i say in “can i rant? [part 1]“. the leader was rather unhappy that i confronted her about that essay. so, she recently keep telling the group this : “oh, later my[me] will decide what the members will do. cause she is leader ma.” hey. since when i am the leader? and she said it in a sarcastic tone. not only that, whenever she meets a problem, she will start asking me and she will repeat this “cause you are the leader ma!” it is like WTH right? but on that day when the teacher asks who is the leader, she will definitely claimed it is her. bull****

today is the day where my friend and i got so unhappy with them. i told the leader so many times that i am not the leader, nothing gets into her bird brain. she continues to say that. seriously, it REALLY irritates me a lot. this is how the day goes, previous day, we went to find a classroom and do our group project. i don’t know why, but the school internet connection is rather weird. it goes on and off, but not that frequent. cause we are doing some 3D animations, so we are trying to download the materials. but we were unsure where can we find, i called my classmate to send me the link. he is busy i guess, so he did not give me right away. so, we were trying to check where else can we find. but this leader of mine, all she can do is complain that she can’t find all those crap. “IF YOU ARE LAZY TO FIND, JUST SAY.” i bet she just want to wait for the link to come. end up, because she was impateient with the school connection, she just shouted and say “I dont want to find anymore! the interent keeps going on and off!” so all she did was start playing her games and watching her videos. best thing was, she was playing ONLINE games. bravo isn’t she? and when we are starting to do the work, all she did was sleeping. WTH? “HELLO! THIS IS A GROUP WORK!” as today is a hot day, my friend and i decided to go to a room and do work because there is aircon. but ends up both shadow and leader refused. reason? cause the internet connection sucks. but all the work we require to do doesn’t require that. but you know why they need? to DO THEIR OWN THINGS. great.

so, both my friend and i decide to move on our own. my friend was angry of the reason of not moving because they needs to use the internet. my friend was unhappy. we found a room and told them to come up. but they wont because of that internet thing. and she even sarcast us by saying that we are lazy, didn’t want to join them to do. rubbish isn’t it? oh ya. anyways, leader is a korea freak, she always tried to act like one of them. so, you know what she did? she wrote the F word in korean as her msn nick. ha. it is damn obvious that she is scolding us. “HEY! THIS IS SINGAPORE. THERE IS NO KBS HERE. WE DON’T UNDERSTAND KOREAN! THANKS!” this is when my friend and leader started the msn fight. i can paste conversation here if you want. leader sounded so cocky. like she had no wrongs at all. best move she did was she wrote us on her blog saying that “don’t keep asking. just do your own work.” WTH!

perhaps reading this won’t make you feel angry, but trust me. if you are grouping with someone her, the leader, it is hell.

PS. Sorry if i have used any rude words. I am just pissed off.

AU REVOIR

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Can I Rant? [part 1]

August 15, 2009 at 12:32 am (Work)

i am tired of keeping everything to myself, so i am going to say. the things i am going to say below are some of my group members.
firstly, in the past, i always think that group projects are great because you are able to do things with your friends. it is until recently i hate group projects. seriously, if you have members that only know how to copy and paste blindly, it is super irritating. i can understand that essays, proposals and etc are hard to write sometimes, so getting ideas from samples are reasonable. but when you just copy and paste without making any changes, then left all the editing to your friends, that is real bad. besides, it doesn’t mean that i do not have my work to do. in whole, it means that i have to do her editing and my work. won’t this double my workload? this is what they did. they just copy and paste for me and told me that they have finished their parts. recently, i scolded them for copying and pasting blindly and make me do the extra work. they still can say very loudly that they are not at fault. for example: in the essay, she copied “Hometown:Singaporean”. it is wrong right? i told it is wrong but she didn’t believe me. so i asked her what does “hometown” means, she say “place”. right on dot! she can say place yet she wrote “Singaporean”! i told her to read the essay and told me “ohh. not i wrong! the samples wrote that so i copied.” WTH huh?

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To all Singles: The wait is definitly worth it

July 28, 2009 at 7:55 am (Love, Relationships)
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To be honest, I have a desire to have a male companion who will be able to care and love me, and that I can also do likewise to him. Wouldn’t it be great to have a shoulder to cry on when you’re sad, to have a listening ear to all your jubilant and sorrowful thoughts and most importantly, a companion? I believe this is just animal instinct to have the desire to love and to be loved.

Thus it is perfectly normal for any Singles out there to have the desire to be attached to someone of the opposite gender. But after much reflection and discussion with 2 married people of opposite genders, I decided against my irresistable desire to be attached.

Our lives are already that short. I believe that we need to spend more time with ourselves, friends and family before being committed into a relationship and having to take care and love someone else. If you can’t even love yourself, do you think you would be able to love someone else better? So spend your days understanding yourself, family and friends better! See more of the world and be enlightened and make yourself a better person before trying to help another person’s life!

Also, don’t jump the wagon. If a guy wants to be with you, think really wisely before you accept him. You don’t want to be in a state of regret for being with someone without truly loving them. There might always be someone else BETTER waiting for you in time to come, so why rush over a relationship now? Better to be single and enjoying your life now before you make a big regret of your life, and disappoint the people around you. Do not hasten to love; it will come to you when the time is right.

And if you are heart-broken that your boyfriend broke up with you, don’t be. In time to come, you would be truly appreciative of his action. He has made a terrible mistake of letting you go. He has made you available to other guys, enabling you to find an even better love partner! Your love deserves to go to someone worthier instead of the ungrateful man who does not realize how precious you are! Things happen for a reason. You will never be able to find the best man until you are single isn’t it?  

kelly0831

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Eternity love? Think again.

July 23, 2009 at 8:12 am (Love, Relationships)
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My male friend once claimed that there is no such thing as a couple being able to sustain their love for each other for eternity, resulting in them “falling out” of love for each other. My immediate response was to interrupt and to give a cry of outrage, to prove him wrong. But in a relaxed tone, he continued to say that this situation might happen in a marriage and that is is thus necessary that the couple remind themselves the purpose of their relationship, and try to restore the passionate relationship they once had.

Disappointing as this may sound, I will accept it. No matter how strong your love for each other might be at the start of the relationship, you will naturally get jaded of each other after a few decades. Having said that, do you Singles out there still long for a love one so badly? Frankly I think this news has made the idea of marriage less appealing. My belief in an eternity love has dissolved and I found it pointless to pursue a relationship or marriage.

However it was only then that  I finally understood the significance of a baby in a marriage. Not only does a child improve the prospect of your old-age, it strengthens your marriage. With a child, there may be more heated quarreling that will add more cracks to your marriage. But in general, the couple will find the marriage being more meaningful and exciting. Why do you think couples always want to try out something new with each other like going to America or going skiing together? It is always fun to try out a new adventure with each other. Likewise is the case with having a baby in their life. It adds more spice, compromise and love to their marriage! (:

A marriage might turn dull with time but it is crucial that you do new and novel activities with each other to keep the wheel going coloufully! :)

 

kelly0831

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Age Differences

July 21, 2009 at 2:16 pm (Work)
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In general, i feel that people who are older than us are unwilling to listen to teenagers like us, especially when they make mistakes. Isn’t it?

The same situation at work. Some employees would not like their superiors who are younger than them to order them around, instead to respect them as an elder. When he/she made a repeated mistake, he/she would expect that their superiors who are younger, to speak to them nicely — “Hello! you have made this mistake again. Please take note Thanks!”

To me, there is no age differences at work. Even if you are person who has gain much experiences in the work society, you are still new and inexperience as compared to a person who are more experienced than you in that field of specialty. For this, it cannot be judged by age.

`ying

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Work Status

July 20, 2009 at 3:29 pm (Work)
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Being a member in the working society, you are either high and mighty or you are just a employee holding a small position. Either you are a decision maker or the one who listens to your superiors’ orders.

Have you ever tried having a position that is a little of both? I did.

Imagine.

Considering your working environment, which position are you in?

People who are still schooling always think that working life is good. You earn money instead of paying and you are experiencing a long awaiting freedom in your adult life. No stress from teachers, parents or peers about your grades.

People who are working always think that schooling is better. You just focus on studying and holding less responsibilities. No stress from your superiors about deadlines and your working capabilities.

Well, Grass is Greener on the Other Side.

The choice is yours. Learn to be contented in the environment you are in. Do the best you can. If not, try changing to another environment that you are happy in.

Don’t be like me. LOLS!

`ying

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Do you love yourself?

July 18, 2009 at 4:40 am (Beauty)
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Do you think you are beautiful or attractive?  Ask this question to anyone and most people will most probably say an unsure “yes” or “NO”. I think this question boils down to individual confidence.

Lately, someone asked me this question and i retorted “NO”. It was later when I reflected back on the inccident that I felt I should not have gave such a reply. In the past, I always fancied myself looking like a flawless and attractive lady with a  pair of  large innocent and attractive almond-looking eyes, a beautifully pointed chin and a perfect lips on a slender yet big bossom body. I think almost everyone would have once dreamed of looking like a supermodel. But will you look good only if you have a nice phsyique? Think about it- if you are feeling positive and confident, you’ll be smiling and that surely looks way better than a sour-faced person. It is also likely that you will not be hunching your back, making you look taller and smarter! You would also walk smartly and not sloppily!  Do you think a hunch-back and sulking man with a six-pack body look hunky? I think that looks awful. Your confidence level can be easily detected by others half a mile away! So be sure not to spoil your looks by feeling lousy or being in self-denial. Clothes and makeup will only get you that far. Confidence will get you everywhere.

We just ought to come to acceptance of our looks and learn to love ourselves. I was pondering over this issue lately. If you think you are ugly-looking now, what will you think of yourself ten years down the road when you age and there will be more lines on your face and more body fat on the tummy and hips? If you think you will look prettier down the road, I am happy for you that you are a very optimistic person. But in most situations, chances are that you will grow older looking less beautiful than a decade ago. Hence I feel that each of us are looking at our best right now and it only helps if you learn to love your body now or you never will in your lifetime.

And on a personal note- is it really that crucial to look attractive? Reports have shown that when it comes to marriages, the opposite gender are no longer as concerned over the appearence of their lover as before, when they were only interested for a short-term relationship. So should I say that you only need to be concerned over your looks if you are only looking for short-term relationships? haha..

I once stumbled onto this online article which says that people with plastic surgery are more likely to commit suicide. Lets think about it. If an individual is to do such a drastic action like plastic surgery, it shows how dissatisfied they are with their body. Thus they have an expectation that after the surgery, they will look significantly nicer and that their life will improve. Sadly, this is not the case. Improving your appearance does not neccessarily improve others’ opinion of you and the life around you may not change for the better! Thus when the individual’s life does not turn up that way, he is so disappointed that he commits suicide. I think this is saddening. So if you think that looks are all that important, think again. Looking pretty or handsome does not improve anything. It simply heightens your disappointment and you wil end up feeling more resentful than before.

Learn to love yourself, and be confident of who you are. And I’d be certain that you can shine above others. :)

kelly0831

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WordPress VS Blogger

July 17, 2009 at 3:44 am (Uncategorized)

woah. this is my first entry in this blog and in WordPress! I have been a Blogger user for the past 6-7 years of my life! It seems like WordPress is way better than Blogger in terms of the ease for me to post my entries in categories/ tags/ pages. I can create as many pages as i wish, with such complete ease! Some might not find this useful but for someone like me who is petty over the organisation of my stuff, this feature is very useful. (:

Such features are something which Blogger has been lacking for all these years.. :( But in my opinion, the downside of WordPress is the inability to find your own template. As a free-account user, you are unable to preview/edit the HTML code of the template and can only use what’s given to you.

However, you are entitled to edit the HTML code of your post entries- which is something that is amiss in Blogger. What’s so great about editing your HTML code of your entry? well this will allow you to change the font type or style of your entry even if it’s not provided by the site (i.e. WordPress). So long as the font that you are using is a standard font such as Comic De Sans instead of non-standard fonts such as the ones in www.dafont.com, your reader should be able to see your font!

In short, i think WordPress will be a very suitable site for Bloggers who prefer a greater control over the organisation of their post entries or pages, or for people who aspire to create a website with complete ease. On a side note, please note that Yahoo Geocities that was previously popular for making a free website, will be closing down their services in about a month time. 

Well, i guess this is quite a disappointing news since I always felt that Geocities is a good place for amteur website builders to explore and to gain the experience of knowing how to build a “real” website.  But then again, i guess the viewership of these Geocities site are so low that it is probably unprofitable to maintain as a web host for users.

Frankly, i think Geocities is no longer in such a big demand due to the rise of “mini websites” such as Blogger, WordPress,  Live Journal and etc. where anyone can own a site without a cost and most importantly without the need for prior knowledge on how to create a site!

 

kelly0831

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